No one wants to file for bankruptcy. You hear about big corporations doing it all the time. But corporations are different than an individual. Finding alternatives to bankruptcy can save you a world of trouble in the long run.
Think about a debt consolidation loan. Debt consolidation means that all of your debt is put together and a loan secured for the total amount. Creditors are paid what is owed to them and the bank that issued the loan is given a monthly payment that is within reason for the consumer.
Debt consolidation mostly includes unsecured debt. This would be credit cards, store credit cards, unsecured lines of credit from companies, and gas cards. Unsecured debt is what creditors have a hard time recouping from people because it is not backed up by any collateral.
If you can’t find a bank that will give you a debt consolidation loan, go through an agency. The agency counselors are used to working with creditors and will negotiate on your behalf. They can get your debt dropped by as much as sixty percent. You then make just one monthly payment to the agency, and they take care of the rest with the creditors.
Debt consolidation does not involve liquidating your assets. With bankruptcy proceedings, the court may rule that you have to sell your belongings to pay the creditors. Debt consolidation allows you to keep the things that you have and comes up with another solution.
Another option is to get a second job. It isn’t pleasant, but if getting another job will allow you to make a sizeable credit card payment each month for a year or two until the debt is eliminated, then it will prove to be well worth it. If a second job is not feasible, ask about overtime at your current job. You need to find a way to make more money if you want to reduce your debt.
The second job can be a way to supplement your income while you are paying off a debt consolidation loan. Things come up without warning and you may need more cash than you have available. A second job will help you to save for a rainy day and still make payments on your debt.
You could also consider starting a home business. For those who are in a time crunch that prevents a second job, a home business may be right up your alley. Most can be started with little or no money. Selling products on eBay can bring in money when you need it most.
Do you have a special skill? Market that to others who could use your services. Remember to earmark the money to be used for resolution of debt and not to spend freely and incur more debt.
Bankruptcy is not the way to go if you don’t absolutely have to. Seek alternatives to this course of action. The changes don’t have to be permanent, just until you get out of debt and back on a strong financial footing.
Avoid the “I Want” Syndrome
Children are such precious little beings. They add that special something to our lives. But when they start to complain about wanting everything under the sun, we can’t imagine what that “something” is. Here are some tips for parents who are dealing with, or want to avoid, this classic syndrome that can affect children.
Don’t think of it as cute behavior. Parents easily fall into this trap. When a child is young and they throw a temper tantrum over a toy in the store, we see it as a phase and call it cute. Most parents indulge the child so they won’t die of embarrassment. This is a no-no!
Children learn quickly. A child that discovers they can get what they want by acting out will do it again and again. "The monster" is born. Setting them on this course makes it harder to break the habit as they age.
Give them an allowance. Children naturally think that our money is also their money, and to a certain extent they are right. We provide for their well-being by purchasing food and clothing. We pay the mortgage so that they have a roof over their heads. But this doesn’t entitle them to act like we are a genie in a bottle.
An allowance gives kids something they never had before: their own money. A child that understands money will be fascinated. As the money grows from week to week, share with them how saving money allows them to afford toys that they buy themselves.
Watch your spending habits. Children mimic what they see. If their parents buy everything that they want, the child will likely want to do the same. Include your children in the family budget. Convene a family meeting once a month to discuss the financial picture.
Explaining how saving works in their favor gives kids a head start in the money game. Explaining to kids that parents also have to save for things they want and for family vacations, gives them a better understanding of family finances. Money really doesn’t grow on trees.
Teach a life lesson. Kids will want things. They learn how to share and not be greedy from you. Teach them the lesson of “less expensive” early on in their lives. When their allowance is small, take your kids to the dollar store for their money-spending excursions.
Television commercials prompt kids to ask about the latest doll or a monster truck. Don’t blow them off by saying,"We will see about it later." Kids will take that as an affirmative answer. Instead, offer the idea of putting that toy on their Christmas or birthday wish list. Even better, encourage them to save and buy it with their own money.
Kids are a blank slate. They believe that they are entitled to whatever they see and want. You can change this behavior through the tips above.
Don’t think of it as cute behavior. Parents easily fall into this trap. When a child is young and they throw a temper tantrum over a toy in the store, we see it as a phase and call it cute. Most parents indulge the child so they won’t die of embarrassment. This is a no-no!
Children learn quickly. A child that discovers they can get what they want by acting out will do it again and again. "The monster" is born. Setting them on this course makes it harder to break the habit as they age.
Give them an allowance. Children naturally think that our money is also their money, and to a certain extent they are right. We provide for their well-being by purchasing food and clothing. We pay the mortgage so that they have a roof over their heads. But this doesn’t entitle them to act like we are a genie in a bottle.
An allowance gives kids something they never had before: their own money. A child that understands money will be fascinated. As the money grows from week to week, share with them how saving money allows them to afford toys that they buy themselves.
Watch your spending habits. Children mimic what they see. If their parents buy everything that they want, the child will likely want to do the same. Include your children in the family budget. Convene a family meeting once a month to discuss the financial picture.
Explaining how saving works in their favor gives kids a head start in the money game. Explaining to kids that parents also have to save for things they want and for family vacations, gives them a better understanding of family finances. Money really doesn’t grow on trees.
Teach a life lesson. Kids will want things. They learn how to share and not be greedy from you. Teach them the lesson of “less expensive” early on in their lives. When their allowance is small, take your kids to the dollar store for their money-spending excursions.
Television commercials prompt kids to ask about the latest doll or a monster truck. Don’t blow them off by saying,"We will see about it later." Kids will take that as an affirmative answer. Instead, offer the idea of putting that toy on their Christmas or birthday wish list. Even better, encourage them to save and buy it with their own money.
Kids are a blank slate. They believe that they are entitled to whatever they see and want. You can change this behavior through the tips above.
Create an Achievable "Get Out of Debt" Plan
When you have an overabundance of debt, it's natural to want to get rid of it as quickly as possible. Interest costs can really add up, and having too much debt makes it difficult or impossible to take on debt for things you need. But when we're faced with more debt than we can handle, it is important not to panic.
Getting out of debt on one's own is best if it's possible. But many debtors make the mistake of trying to pay their debts off too quickly. They set unrealistic goals, and when they can't achieve them they become discouraged. This often ends with them filing bankruptcy, because they feel that there is no way around it.
The best course of action is to be realistic. Make a budget, and include everything that you spend money on each month. Then find what you can realistically do without, and put the money you save on those things toward paying off your debt. Here are some things we can often cut out of the budget:
* Eating out. Whether you pick up fast food for lunch when you're working, or go out to eat with friends at a fancy restaurant once a week, you can cut costs here. Take your lunch to work, and have dinner with your friends once a month instead of once a week. Or better yet, suggest a less expensive activity that you can do together.
* Vices. Cigarettes, lattes, and other things we buy as a matter of habit are good places to cut back. Quitting smoking is good for you anyway, and switching to regular coffee, made at home with some flavored creamer, would be less expensive. Every little bit helps.
* Entertainment. No one's saying that you have to sit at home and be bored all of the time. Just examine your entertainment budget and see if there are ways you could cut back. If you rent a lot of movies, for example, consider signing up for an unlimited plan.
* Travel. With gas prices usually going up instead of down, cutting back on travel can be a real money saver. Carpooling, and combining trips as much as possible, are two ways that can save you a substantial amount of money on travel.
It may take you several months or even a few years to get your debt paid off, depending on how much debt you're in and how much extra money you can put toward it each month. But as long as you're able to make your minimum payments and add a little extra to at least one of your bills each month, you will be making progress. You'll also be keeping your credit in good shape by making the payments on time. Just be patient, and you will eventually be debt-free.
Getting out of debt on one's own is best if it's possible. But many debtors make the mistake of trying to pay their debts off too quickly. They set unrealistic goals, and when they can't achieve them they become discouraged. This often ends with them filing bankruptcy, because they feel that there is no way around it.
The best course of action is to be realistic. Make a budget, and include everything that you spend money on each month. Then find what you can realistically do without, and put the money you save on those things toward paying off your debt. Here are some things we can often cut out of the budget:
* Eating out. Whether you pick up fast food for lunch when you're working, or go out to eat with friends at a fancy restaurant once a week, you can cut costs here. Take your lunch to work, and have dinner with your friends once a month instead of once a week. Or better yet, suggest a less expensive activity that you can do together.
* Vices. Cigarettes, lattes, and other things we buy as a matter of habit are good places to cut back. Quitting smoking is good for you anyway, and switching to regular coffee, made at home with some flavored creamer, would be less expensive. Every little bit helps.
* Entertainment. No one's saying that you have to sit at home and be bored all of the time. Just examine your entertainment budget and see if there are ways you could cut back. If you rent a lot of movies, for example, consider signing up for an unlimited plan.
* Travel. With gas prices usually going up instead of down, cutting back on travel can be a real money saver. Carpooling, and combining trips as much as possible, are two ways that can save you a substantial amount of money on travel.
It may take you several months or even a few years to get your debt paid off, depending on how much debt you're in and how much extra money you can put toward it each month. But as long as you're able to make your minimum payments and add a little extra to at least one of your bills each month, you will be making progress. You'll also be keeping your credit in good shape by making the payments on time. Just be patient, and you will eventually be debt-free.
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